'Til Death Do Us Part.
I didn't know this blog post would
actually ever happen. After writing this, I figured I had said what needed
to be said. I never knew there would be a part two.
The past two weeks have been a whirlwind
of emotions. My great grandma Liz passed away on a Tuesday morning, and we had
her funeral on Saturday afternoon. The weather was beautiful for a February
day. It was wonderful to see friends and family I had not seen since I was very
little, and meet new people who knew and loved my great grandma. It was a good
day to celebrate a life well lived.
On Sunday evening, after having
returned to "normal" life, I received a phone call I had not
expected. My great grandma's husband of 74 years was quickly fading. Within the
next hour, my great grandpa Howard joined his wife in heaven.
It's sometimes strange how life
works.
For 74 years, they were together. They loved their three wonderful children. They loved their six grandchildren. They loved their ten great-grandchildren. They loved to travel, which apparently rubbed off on me. They loved one another, and most importantly, they loved the Lord.
In the past few years, Grandpa's
purpose was to live for Liz. She had always cared for him, prior to getting
sick, and he wanted to return the favor. He made sure she had quality care, and
made sure that she was loved.
After she passed away, I guess my
grandpa knew his work on earth was done. He knew Liz was in heaven, and he was
ready to join his wife.
I had no idea it would happen
this fast.
I had no idea we would funeral
two Saturdays in a row.
I had no idea I would be listening
to Gaither Homecoming music, and crying because of how much it reminded me of
my grandparents.
I really had no idea things like
this happened in real life, and not just in movies.
But, I do know that Howard and
Liz lived a life for the Lord and I want to do that same.
My great-grandpa Howard was a
prayer warrior. He would stop and pray for just about anything or anyone that
he saw fit. This probably came from being a farmer. As a farmer, you have to
trust that the Lord has a plan. Through drought and through hailstorms, Grandpa
was grateful. When wheat had a bad season and the cotton wasn't producing much,
Grandpa gave thanks. A farmer truly understand what it is like to live by
faith, and release full control to the Lord. In his final breath, he was
still praising God for blessing him with a farm, family and friends.
Grandpa taught me to pray, in
good times and bad.
Grandpa taught me to live with a
grateful heart.
He taught me to bottle feed a
calf.
He taught me that giving is
always better than receiving.
And, he taught me the importance
of an afternoon nap.
I can't begin to wrap my mind
around all that has happened in the past two weeks. I'm unsure if I'll ever be
able to.
I do know, however, that I will
tell their story to anyone who will listen.
I will tell of how their marriage
was truly a covenant, and not a contract.
I will tell of how they loved one
another, unconditionally.
And, I know that when I say my vows one day, "until
death do us part" will have a whole new meaning.
Wow what an awesome tribute to two wonderful & committed Christian folks. I grew up with Howard and Liz in Lane, OK. When they visited and stayed in their camper years later, I always visited Liz. Howard was always out and about with Earl.
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